Tuesday, March 31, 2026

Beginning Middle and End

Bobby is learning to write stories at school with a beginning, middle and end, complete with illustrations. 

Here is Beginning Middle and End story.
Written by Bobby boy. 
Illustrations by Bobby boy. 
Narrated by Mama.



In the beginning, there was a Bobby riding his bicycle.


Then, Bobby in bicycle met another kid Ryan who was on a scooter. They exchanged pleasanteries.


Soon, one of them turned into dust but the scooter survived.

<Bobby corrected me> Actually both Bobby and Ryan rode their bicycle and scooter around, and lived happily ever after.

The end. 











Monday, March 30, 2026

Karate State Qualifier

I had been hearing about the state qualifier for awhile. Little miss Haana has been prepping her karate routines- demo team, teams kata, weapons kata, individuals - for last several weeks. It has been hard work. The state qualifier is for students from various regional schools, and selects which ones will go to the state championship for karate in May. The week leading up to the qualifier, little miss Haana had been working on her karate katas every day after school, coming back late and so tired! 

Last week was the state qualifier. I was excited about the weapons kata. This time little miss Haana had chosen two Korean fans as her weapon of choice. I had seen some of the moves at home, but without the actual fans, and never the full kata. 

Raj went with her for the qualifier. And thankfully recorded much of little miss Haana's performance. During the weapons kata I heard other people in the audience go "woah" as little miss Haana did hand stand and cartwheel and then elbow stand and reverse cartwheel. There were considerable oohs-and-ahhs from the audience! The judges seemed to agree. In the teams and individuals, little miss Haana scored the top 1st place! On the weapons kata too, she scored the 1st place!
She came back home at 2pm. Weighed down by 3 giant gold medals!!! Smiling wide at a job well done!! I had her favorite lunch on the menu- red beans and cilantro lime rice.

I watched the videos of her performance multiple times, adding my own oohs-and-ahhs each time as well!! 


Nerf Wars

For Bobby boy's birthday, Softy mausi had been scouting for gifts. Since Bobby's neighborhood bro had a Nerf gun, that seemed like a good gift idea. She ans Sid uncle ordered a Nerf gun. One. In addition and with loads of anticipation they also ordered 100 extra bullets for the said gun.

It got delivered a day early. And it got me thinking, who is the target and who is the shooter. I did the only thing i thought reasonable for an equitable power dynamics at this place - i ordered another Nerf gun. For me. So now, on Bobby's birthday, we had 2 Nerf guns - one for him and one for me. Both loaded with bullets. And both ready to shoot. 

Let the Nerf wars begin!

Monday, March 23, 2026

What Will I Drive

Mumma you know what i will drive when I grow up? (Bobby boy asked me looking dotingly at his new ferrari lego car he just built).
What are you going to drive when you grow up Bobby?
An electric scooter! (He says with a grin on his face and a smile in his eyes!)
An electric scooter?! The kind with a seat on the back for me? 
No! Not another seat! You can come in your car.
In the car?! But when you grow up, I'll not want to drive anymore. I'll want to come with you!
OK okay! (He realizes Mumma is getting a bit clingy). 
Actually you can be in the basket (of the electric scooter).
The basket? What am I, eggs? Eggs go in a  basket!
(Giggles) No, you're not eggs, but you can still just be in the basket! Be in the basket Mumma!
I'm not happy about this arrangement.

Sunday, March 22, 2026

Camping

I've had full-on camping gear and supplies for quite sometime. For last 5 and a half years to be exact. They'd all been used exactly once so far. Until yesterday. 

When Bobby boy was 6 months old, deep into covid, we went for camping for the very first time. It was cold though, really cold. Bobby boy was wrapped in a warm suit that made him look like and feel like a michellin man or an astronaut. Barely able to walk, it didn't help that he was covered from head to toe, keeping him all warm but making him all wobbly and sloppy! We arrived at the campsite later than we should have, set up the tent, made a camp fire, grilled food.  It was fun for sometime. When we turned in to sleep in our 4 person tent, I remember the tent seemed quite large. But Bobby was wobbly and just generally not happy, feeling like he was covered with pillows. The next morning we woke up, made tea and breakfast at the campsite before packing up and heading back. It was not a totally disaster but we were scarred enough that we didn't go back for like 5 years. 

This weekend, in lieu of Bobby's birthday, Bobby's godfather Keith suggested camping, and i thought it may be time for second chance! It was a place close to home. The plan was to get there around 5-6 when there is still plenty of sunlight to set up the tent. Grill some meat for dinner. Stay in tent for the night and come back the next morning. The camp site was really nice right next to the lake and had picnic table and grill. Bobby Doggo and i reached about 6 and met Keith there. We were able to unload the car and set up the tent by 7. Bobby helped too! Doggo was delighted to run after the ducks in the lake (without actually getting in to the lake!), gallopped this way and that, free as the birds he was chasing! We put picnic chairs overlooking the lake and watched as boats crossed this way and that. Bobby guessed how fast each of the speed boats must be. Then hot dogs were grilled. Raj had picked up a paneer wrap for me to take to camping, which was delicious! 

We sat by the picnic table talking and eating. The sun had set and it was getting pretty dark now. Just after we finished dinner Bobby said i gotto go to poopoo. The rest room with running water was not far but certainly not close while walking. So he and I ran to the car, I turned the car around and we drove to the rest room. I half expected to see doggo running behind the car in the rear view mirror, telling "Mumma, wait for me!", in dog language of course! But luckily Keith had told him to sit next to him and so he waited. Bobby and I came back soon enough. And now Bobby wanted smores. So we did that!

We brushed our teeth and soon Bobby wanted to turn in for the night. Bobby n I got into the tent and Doggo came up to it and hesitated. He didn't want to be left alone outside, that would be unthinkable. But he also couldn't fathom coming inside this weird contraption! After a mix of coaxing and threatening him, he finally waded inside the tent. Suddenly the tent that had felt pretty big last time, now felt very small! He walked around awkwardly, stomping on my legs and other body parts. Bobby kept moving about in stead of falling asleep. Soon it was all too much for me and my head was getting heavier with sleep. Doggo settled somewhere between Bobby n me. All through the night i slept tossing and turning to make sure doggo is taking turns stifling blood supply in my left and then right ankles and legs. I am sure he was enjoying it. It felt it was dark for a long time and then i turned and opened my eyes and it was suddenly morning and light outside. Doggo was looking forward to getting out and galloping about. 

Keith tried to get the fire going in the morning but it just didn't work. We packed up and left. It was a good camping trip! Doggo and Bobby both agree. It was a birthday camping trip for both of them! Happy birthday Bobby and Doggo!

Thursday, March 19, 2026

Cast Art

2 weeks in. 2 weeks to go. 
Art work on a Bobby's cast.

Lammy

Meet Lammy. Like many other stuffed toys at our place, Lammy has been with us for over 10 years. He used to be little miss Haana's close friend when he first joined us. Little miss Haana used to go to a little gym when she was about 3 or 4. And we had probably lost a toy there. So I was looking in the lost and found bin at Litl Gym to find that toy. In all honesty though, I have no recollection of why I was looking in the lost-and-found bin or the toy we may have lost. But i'm assuming that must be case, or why else would I be looking in the bin, right! So if there was a toy we lost, I didn't find it. But I did find little Lammy, looking for a new home. And.. he chose me. I loved him instantly. So did little miss Haana and he lived in her crib for a long long time.

Then years later Bobby came along, and he loved Lammy too. There was 1 problem.. little miss Haana still loves Lammy.
These days little miss Haana has a bed full of stuffed toys and squishmallows she sleeps with. Including Lammy. Bobby has tried to steal Lammy but she's always snatched him back and kept him for herself. 

Yesterday though, since it's spring break, and Bobby boy is at home, he went into little miss Haana's room while she was out with her friend and swiped Lammy and ran down with it. He showed me. We both hugged Lammy and laughed a delicious laugh, high fiving each other on Lammy's escape! We're keeping Lammy safe and hidden on the bed downstairs and so far little miss Haana is none the wiser. Lammy looks happy!! Doesn't he?

Monday, March 9, 2026

Student Ambassador Haana

Last week little miss Haana's middle school had an open house for perspective new students and their families. For them to tour the middle school they'll be coming to in fall, meet the students, see the clubs. Little miss Haana was asked to represent the Academics -Biology, Karate and Orchestra. She was in school after school till 7pm. But she sat on a panel discussing the middle school life, answered questions from parents about the school, performed with others Karate katas and gave a taste of orchestra at her middle school. 

I am so proud of her! And I got pings from one of mom's of 5th grader who was in the audience, how well little miss Haana was doing!

Friday, March 6, 2026

Homework

Bobby just said this to me -
Mumma if you like homework, you're the teachers pet.

I asked the obvious question - what is homework. 
He didn't know either. Think we are in good company!

One Extra Bone

So it happened again. 

Getting hurt, falling, scrapes and hurts are nothing new for Bobby. Everyday at bath time we count which booboo is new, which is 1 day old, which is older. Everyday. But usually Bobby boy is too busy playing to stop for long. He just gets up, brushes it off and runs along so he's not wasting any play time. 

This week he had a fall that was different. He was riding Ryan's heavier electric scooter and fell off it. He was crying when I got to him and his right index finger skin was scrunched up. And Bobby boy was crying. I felt bad! I hugged and kissed but he kept crying. Dulce came running and tried to lick his tears. Bobby said he wants to go back home. This was different, usually Bobby wouldn't cut short his adventures for a small fall. We turned around but I insisted he get back on the scooter and ride it back home. At first he didn't want to, but there was no way for me to get the scooter back home, and Ryan was on his bicycle too. (In retrospect if I knew this was a serious injury i shouldn't have made him ride the scooter back home. But at that time I didn't want him to be scared of the scooter... oh :-( ). We somehow made it back, Bobby parked the scooter in Ryan's garage and we walked back home. 

At home, I said we have to wash the booboo, so I pulled up water to give Bobby a bath. Not surprisingly he didn't wanna! And he kept crying and saying i want Papa. I was getting irritated. Gugu was around, so she talked to Bobby, and in some kid-to-kid-magic way explained to Bobby how cleaning his wound is very important. He agreed to taking a bath. I washed up the Bobby, and put baby oil and clothes on. Now Bobby finally stopped crying. But it was still really hurting him. This is way off, I realized. This could be something worse. I took appointment for urgent care. 

Raj came back meanwhile and we went to the doctor's. It was a fracture, turns out. They put a removable sprint and told us to see a childrens orthopedist later. The pain is mostly stopped for Bobby, but the finger stays in this removable stint. And now me and Bobby are sitting at the children's ortho watching Disney channel waiting on the doctor. I hope the worst is behind us. 


Electric Scooter Build up - last week's news

Bobby had been telling Ryan's mom about how he wants to have another electric scooter of his own, and how much he likes it, and how his birthday is coming up. 

Last week Ryan's mom ordered an electric scooter for Bobby's birthday! I couldn't believe it. The boys almost ripped the box eager to open it up. Ryan's dad assembled it and charged it enough for it to go for sometime! Wow, happy birthday came early :)