Saturday, September 16, 2023

New Schools

What is it about new schools that fills parents with a sense of foreboding anxiety?

In August little miss Haana was starting middle school! Not just a new school, but so much more. No longer will they have a home room and home room teacher who spends a lot of time with them. Now each class will be in different room, 4 minutes of time to move in between classes. Students have to keep track of their schedule. Teachers are no longer baby-ing my baby! 

Not everyone was filled with anxiety. Little miss Haana was mostly excited. A bit nervous but mostly excited. A couple days before classes were about to start the school has a welcome night. Little miss Haana caught up with all her friends who, like her, wanted to be done with the summer and get back to each other!

For the parents, it would take a bit longer to figure out. New school, new teachers. New pick up and drop off timings. New bus schedule. New routes. But most of all it meant my baby little miss Haana was growing up. 

On another front, Bobby, who was now enjoying his playschool was now going to go to a new montessori. We had done some homework. Toured multiple montessoris in our neighborhood, then zeroed in on 2. Met the teachers at both the places and decided on one. But the big question was, would Bobby like it there?

A few more weeks of worrying about it, and then it was time for Bobby to start the new school. We went to drop him off with a lot of trepidation. He was excited to be going to 'big boy school'. His teacher engaged him in dinosaurs and just like that, he was good! I turned around, lingered outside the class door before finally heading home. When I came back to pick him up, he was doing great! 

So just like that both Bobby and little miss Haana started new schools!


Sunday, July 23, 2023

Haana's Weekly Roundup #2

Turns out last week's Haana's Weekly Roundup was a resounding success. Multiple subscribers were snagged by the newspaper, and early customers surveyed (interrogated) for feedback. This feedback was almost all very positive, except from this one pesky reader who insisted on some "improvements" (scoff)! Anyhow, to appease this very persistent (irate) reader, some minor changes and enhancement were instituted. 

So, here below, the new and already enhanced, Haana's Weekly Roundup for week 2!



Haana's Weekly Roundup #1

My little miss Haana came out with a weekly newsletter giving news and trivia from both near and far. 

She came up with the idea, then designed and wrote the stories and printed them up so look like the Sunday newsletter. 

I am liking these Sunday newsletters!




Wednesday, July 12, 2023

Mother's Day


This mother's day i got some potent gifts. A really thoughtful spread and several tickets to get whatever I want!! I've already used one ticket to have the amazing baker little miss Haana bake me a chocolate cake! 
I see more cake in my future 😀


Big Fat India Trip

June was a big month. It was a month of a big trip. Trip to India to visit grandparents. A first for Bobby boy. And a 5 year hiatus for little miss Haana. 

It was 3 week trip split between Delhi and Chennai; with a side of a trip to Kanyakumari. The long flight to Delhi was punctuated with a 6 hr layover. Both little miss Haana and Bobby boy slept a little bit on the flight. But once we got to the airport lounge to spend time during our layover, Bobby boy was certainly in what I call - the energizer-bunny-mode! Running around and very animated, like someone fitted him with brand new batteries! The flights were relatively good, both Haana and Bobby did well, watched their videos, ate their meals, slept for a bit and mostly left me alone to catch a movie or two.. or three. 

At Delhi, nani and nana (maternal grandparents) were delighted to see them. We had delicious food, prepared by nani. Little miss Haana had been looking forward to having aaloo parantha (potato stuffed tortilla cooked with oil) with butter. I had dutifully communicated this to nani before we even left for India. Little miss Haana had her aaloo parantha with a huge dollop of butter right away! And then every single day we were in Delhi (except our last day in delhi, which nani still feels really bad about).
We talked about politics with nana - both national politics (nana is a big Modi supporter) and local (at nana's morning club!!). 
Later we went over to visit Tata, Pati (parental grandparents) in Chennai. While there, little miss Haana got her choicest dosa or ildi every day. While in Chennai we made a side trip to see the great grandmother at Nagercoil and to Kanyakumari beach. 800km distance. Kanyakumari is a town at the southern most tip of India, with beach waters that are a confluence of the Indian ocean, Bay of Bengal and the Arabian Sea. We took a train from Chennai for this trip. 12 hrs, 5pm to 5am. Bobby boy and I were the ones most excited for this train trip. Bobby, because he loves trains, all trains, and platforms, stations, bridges, tunnels, tracks.. everything. Me, because I like the motion of being on a train, and looking out the window to see a glimpse of so many lives for a brief second, like a photograph. I like watching the tracks, how they come together and then go apart. It's mesmerising. Last time I travelled by train in India was Jan 2002 when Papa and i went to Allahabad for the maha-kumbh mela. I was remembering that trip, fragments in my memory, before my life changed so much later that year. I liked that trip. Kumbh mela came to be as the largest gathering of the curious and argumentative hindus, to exchange ideas, learn and share ideas. On my trip I took a dip in the ganges river. What an amazing event.

I did a bunch of shopping at Chennai,  something I don't usually do much of or have a sustained interest in. But boy did i shop this time! Clothes. Almost all of it. 

Back in Delhi, we moved to Softy mausi's for 3 days. It was a true vacation, with good food, great company, and TV in the bedroom to cozy up together and watch movies! It was a great time! Bobby boy was contemplating whether to trust Softy mausi around his cherished blanket. Softy mausi was not doing herself any favors by repeatedly trying to swipe it. Little miss Haana shadowed her Aby bhaiya, they both alternating between cushion fighting (Bobby boy insisting on being in the middle of it) card games and playing pool. 

After this 3 day vacation at Softy mausi, we were back at Nana Nani's. And that's when Deepa nani (my mom's youngest sister) came over to visit us. She came bearing gifts, love and hugs! 

Too soon it was time to head back for our flight out of India. Where had all that time gone! Too much time had passed between our last visit and this one. 

Thursday, June 1, 2023

Claw

Little miss Haana's school was doing a musical for end of school year. This is her last year at the Elementary school, so even more special. For the musical is called Claw. They're all toys inside an arcade game of Claw (where you put in some money and get a few seconds to move a joystick to get a Claw to choose a stuffed toy). She auditioned amd got the part of one of the 4 Flair Bears - one of the 4 toys that sing and dance and are full of sass and beats! She put in a lot of time practicing both at school after hours and at home; singing the songs, practicing her lines, getting her moves right!
On the day of the performance, we were all so excited! Last performance of elementary school! She didn't want to be late, so she stayed back at school. I picked up Bobby from his school, picked up nuggets and French fries from McDonald's and then came to school. We snacked in the car before heading back in to school. Raj joined us too.

Soon the performance started. I found a spot right in the front to capture videos. Bobby say on my lap. I focused on my flair bear! The musical was so funny and sweet and sassy and entertaining! It was even touching and emotional in parts, I had tears in my eyes when they talked about saying good bye. 

The songs and dances were so good. Bobby was enjoying it too. At one point, he couldn't just stay out of it. He ran to the stage to little miss Haana and hugged her. Haana hugged him back and he sat with her, becoming one of the stuffed toys of the play! When they got up to dance to a number, Bobby got up and did the same moves as well! It was so cute to look at the amazing bond between them,  of love and trust and companionship. Of joy. It was so special!

The musical was such a roaring success! I am so proud of little miss Haana!

Sharing

One of these days when I was picking up Bobby from school, miss Amanda informed me, "We are working on sharing these days". She meant Bobby has not been willing to share at school, and she's been reminding him he needs to share his toys with his friends. I told her we are still working on sharing at home with the older one (miss Haana), so, good luck to you!
We laughed!! Little miss Haana was not too amused when I told her about it!